Kiri; Yo, Dude.
Russ; Hi Dudette.
Karen; Hi Kiri.
Kiri; OK, in all seriousness, how to coerce. The
important thing to remember about coercing is is
it right? Is the person you're coercing the right
person to coerce? Are you coercing them for
personal gain, their gain, for self improvement,
understanding or, protect them? You have to weigh
all these facts before you can start to coerce. It
is better not to coerce if you are not sure or
even have an slight inkling of doubt. Now this is
a beginner how to coerce. It's not an expert how
to coerce, it's not an intermediate, it is for the
person that has no knowledge on how to coerce
effectively. How do you coerce? Well coercion is
quite simple, it is implanting a thought into
somebody's head that is not their own. What is
coercion? Coercion is getting somebody to do what
you want them to do, either by the voice or
mentally. Now the thing about using the voice is
that it is very different than using the mind.
With the voice they can hear the coercion, they
can feel the coercion and they can have it coming
right at them. Mentally, they do not hear feel or
see anything except for the desire to do what they
think they want to do which may not be what they
want to do.
OK, how do you coerce? Carefully. As I said at the
start the question is not should you coerce?
Because if you have any doubt, YOU DO NOT COERCE.
End of subject, end of topic, end of how reading,
end of how to coerce. However, if you feel it is
right to coerce, then you proceed along these
lines. First of all, make eye contact. If you
decide to use your voice, you use reason and
logic. You talk to them in a soothing tone. I
don't know why I'm lowering my voice to a soothing
tone since you guys reading this won't be able to
hear it. But, you lower your voice to a soothing
tone and you use logic to persuade them to do what
you want them to. You would run along these lines,
''it's not right for you to do that. It is harmful
to you. Let us do it this way.'' The wording will
be different for each circumstance. For example,
let us say that you have a person that is about to
go out and go skiing. It's a beautiful day, the
conditions are ideal, but you feel that that
person should not go skiing because you feel that
person is not in the best state of mind or health
to go skiing. In fact they could be in a dangerous
state of health where they're going to do
something foolish. They could be in actual fact
overconfident and you would say ''OK, let's do
something different today. You know we've been
skiing the last few days, let's take a break
today. Let's go off and do what you want to do but
not skiing. Let's go have a picnic on the beach.
Let's go somewhere you haven't been before'' and
you would insert where you want to go. Let us say
you lived where you live, you might say Virginia
City to see the mines. Use would use inflection
and tone in your voice to manipulate them in a way
to thinking that skiing today maybe isn't such a
good idea. That going down to Virginia City to see
the mines would be an excellent idea. Under no
uncertain circumstances get angry when you are
coercing. When you get angry, you lose control and
you can have an adrenaline overload and coercion
goes out the window. You may succeed by using
anger but then you're using a different mental
attitude where they're feeling guilty which is not
good. That is where coercion for the good becomes
negative. Now, if you're coercing with the mind,
you think of one word to start off with. For
example, a person's about to walk out the door.
You think stop. You picture the word stop being
sent to them. You continue talking to them so they
are open and receptive. You visualize the word
stop and you can actually say it in your
mind…..stop. You project it into their mind in big
bright red letters like one of your Earth stop
signs. You think this thought and picture over and
over again as you continue talking to this person.
You can talk about how beautiful it is outside or
windy it is outside. But, when you send the
thought, pause for a second. Think of the
word…stop in big bright red letters. Then wait for
the reaction, continue talking to them and wait
for the reaction. If they stop, then you would
take the next logical step. If you want them to
come to you, you would picture the word….come in
big bright white letters and you would go through
the same process of visualizing it being sent to
So, when you coerce, the simple steps that you
Use a soothing tone in your voice if you are using
Use a level head when coercing.
Maintain a path that is open and truthful.
If you are using mental coercion, visualize the
word in your head. For example…STOP
Visualize it being projected to them.
Pause in your conversation and watch their
If you want them to come to you, visualize the
word come in big bright letters.
Maybe at the start this doesn't work, but that's
because you may not be a coercer. Nat everybody is
a coercer. Just as not everybody is an astral
traveler or a PK'er or a manifestor or a healer
but, it depends on the individual and it takes
practice and time to coerce. So coercion is a
tool. REMEMBER, never use it for personal gain.
Never coerce for your own needs. Never ever coerce
to have a hold over somebody. Never ever use it to
achieve you own goals. Never ever, ever coerce for
sexual needs, this is the most common use of
coercion or I should say common misuse of
coercion. Lastly, if in doubt, do not coerce at
all. It is better that the person go off and walk
their own path than for you to interfere and
create negative feelings, emotions and reactions
that will change their karmic path. The karma that
comes back on you will be equally damaging. That's
all I have to say on this for the time being.
R; All right then will end this session then.
Kiri; see you later.